Sophie第二十八周-艰苦的Sleep Training!!

是的,我们终于也开始对斐斐实行sleep training了。事情的缘由是这样的:
从上个星期开始,斐斐晚上睡觉表现的极度不乖!!从一开始半夜尖叫几次,但是抱起来哄哄又可以放回去睡好开始,一直到后来的放也放不下去,而且2,3个小时就醒一次,翔宇没有办法,就只能抱着她斜靠在床上睡觉。晚上外婆哄睡也变得很艰难,好不容易睡着了,放下去不到一个小时又哇哇哭醒,然后哄好久放不下去。一开始我们以为她长牙不舒服,后来以为是营养不够,再后来看了医生打了疫苗后,又觉得是有反应所以才闹,但是这样折腾了一个星期,上个礼拜六,应该是礼拜天凌晨,1点多,在翔宇抱着睡了一个小时,又放回床上睡了一个小时之后,又开始闹了,这一次,换我抱,但是抱着她还是不安分,挺肚子!明明要睡,但是就是不肯让人放下去。我一放下去就哭,哭的把外公外婆都吵起来了。我一看,再这样下去不行了,咬一咬牙,把外公外婆赶出去,开始sleep training了!!原来我一直不主张cry it out,总觉得这样哭,大人很难受,小孩子也难过,但是现在开始“自古华山一条路”,没法子了。于是,把斐斐放在床上,看她哭多久,算好20分钟才能抱起来哄哄,不哭,再放下去。谁知道,小家伙哭到第13分钟,自己睡着了。而且这一睡,睡了5个小时不带醒的!!!!这一下增强了我们的信心!!!决定立马开始训练了!!
接下来的这个星期,我们每天都在和斐斐做斗争,特别是外婆,特别不容易,心里不舍得,还要狠下心让斐斐哭着睡,好几次外婆都眼泪汪汪的了。斐斐前几天都是白天有时候哭的少,6分钟10分钟的,有时候哭的多,20多分钟30分钟的也有。晚上一般会嚎20多分钟才睡着。但是渐渐的,不是一直哭了,哭哭停停,后来哭的时间少,停的时间多。今天又有进步,晚上虽然断断续续的哭了25分钟,但是停的时间比较长,而且哭的时候也不是嚎,而更像是自己哄自己睡觉。她自己也是有直觉的,现在一到晚上,灯光一调暗,一给她换衣服,她就知道了,就开始哭哭啼啼的样子。不过这次训练不但是要培养她自己入睡的生活技能,也是要让她戒掉一些坏脾气。训练的这些天来,她都是一觉睡到天亮的。所以还是很有成果的。希望斐斐能快快的学会自己入睡,缩短哭的时间,甚至不哭就能睡着!!菩萨保佑,阿弥陀佛!!
现在吃的上面,小家伙一天三顿副食,米糊加一勺蔬菜泥或者水果泥。还是吃的不错的。但是今天发现脖子上有点一粒粒的小疙瘩,不知道是不是过敏,打算明天或者后天带她去看看医生问一下!!希望不是!!
小人现在很喜欢站着,别人扶着她站在大腿上就乐呵呵!!都不愿意坐。呵呵。
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4 thoughts on “Sophie第二十八周-艰苦的Sleep Training!!

    • Yao Wei says:
      February 11, 2011 at 10:41 pm
      女孩随父。长的不错。外婆好像瘦了不少,等Sophie大点,回上海和我们熙熙甭想。

      “甭想”?是“白相(玩的意思吗?)”

  1. Yes. you worry a lot about the baby. She is very well cared. Enjoy when she is small. This is the old poetry I like:
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    Your children are not your children.
    They are the sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself.
    They come through you but not from you,
    And though they are with you, yet they belong not to you.
    You may give them your love but not your thoughts.
    For they have their own thoughts.
    You may house their bodies but not their souls,
    For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
    You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you.
    For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
    You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.
    The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and He bends you with His might that His arrows may go swift and far.
    Let your bending in the archer’s hand be for gladness;
    For even as he loves the arrow that flies, so He loves also the bow that is stable.

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